Alpha Male – Signs You Are Alpha Male
Alpha is the dominant piece in the puzzle of the every day life. This is a Monday Motivational post. Alpha is the change maker. They are the ones who shaped reality as per their own expectations. This post is not centered around the strongest guy in the gym or the Casanova who gets all the ladies.
But instead it’s about someone someone who is winning the race against himself. This same values applies to women as well but title of post is based on Analytics. Besides this is the perfect opportunity for you to evaluate where you are in life and the aspects which needs to be improved.
Here are 15 signs that You are an Alpha
Without being pleased with your existence you can’t win at life. This is reflected in everything you do and everything around you notices it. The Alpha male looks and feels alive. He enjoys living and for him life is an adventure and he is taking it one second at a time. The way he has designed his lifestyle is mysterious and foreign to most people but it gets him the best result. If you are an Alpha Male you enjoy your everyday life. You don’t look forward to the weekend and you don’t feel tired on Monday because your life is so raw structured. This common worries doesn’t apply to you. Congratulations if you relate to this first point on the list.
Not only the Alpha Male is pleased with his reality but he is also actively shaping it to fit his desires and needs. As an Alpha you are in control of every aspect of your life. If something happens its because you made it happen. If something about your reality is bugging then you try to fix it right away. You are taking action in all aspects of your life and it feels amazing to have this type of control. Even if when some things don’t go according to your plan, you are in control of the way you react to this events and seek to get the best result out of every situation.
Unlike the rest when you say you are going to do something you get it done. A true Alpha doesn’t go back on his word. He is strategic with his time, resources and willpower – focusing on what’s important to him and those who he cares about. He is very result oriented.
An Alpha is the leader of the pack and look out for its members. It is not enough for an Alpha to just win but he is actively looking for sharing success with those who are in his inner circle. He mentors others and help them in being successful – in order to take care even more. That’s how he’s network increases. His inner circle is made up out of valuable individuals which all work together to increase each other’s value and among them the Alpha stands out as an example for the rest.
If you are an Alpha Male than you don’t play it safe. You are not here to satisfy your needs on the Bread crumbs of others. Instead you want the entire pie for yourself. That’s why Alpha always go for high-risk high-reward ventures. Their life is filled with challenges and everyone has their own level of risk, which they are willing to take. That’s why most people will never get rich as they are so afraid of taking risk. They would rather settle for mediocrity. If you look around the world Alpha stands out to be the Titans of the Industries. This people are an inspiration for upcoming Alpha’s. If this is a path you have chosen, I recommend to check out my another post – skills you need to develop to get rich.
Living your life based on someone else expectation is just another form of slavery
As an Alpha you are aware of who you really are. What your life should be like and you have the ability to put yourself in check. Most people rely on others for feedback – on how well they are doing but the Alpha relies only on on data because it’s objective. People always be biased, people will always have agendas but numbers don’t lie. The only approval you need at life is of yours. Be happy with who you are and seek out to be the best version of yourself. You don’t need people to like you because you are on a different journey then they are.
A clear sign that you are on a right track if that you are attracting people towards you. Alpha males inspire – confidence and success these are two traits that make other people gravitate towards you. Everyone wants to be on the winning side and they enjoy being part of the crew. They want to know you personally and they want to be your friend because they believe that associating with you will improve their old life.
This has to be with how you been positioning yourself throughout your life and career. Any Alpha Male is himself a brand. People know of him, they know who he is and they know what he stands for. You might have probably heard this before but a clear indication of success is – Work hard enough until you no longer have to introduce yourself. A personal brand is such an incredible tool to have it at your disposal, which will open doors for you that are closed.
The whole theme of this post is having control of as many aspects of life as possible and emotions are one of them. Emotions are one of those things that seems not that important but could make or break a person. Alpha males have a deeper understanding of emotional intelligence. They control their own emotions and are able to read the emotions of others and act accordingly. While average people are rattled by external factors. But an Alpha will maintain the score, rationalize the situation and act in the best interest of his goals. This doesn’t mean that you are cold and never show your emotions, it means that you should understand the value of your feelings and don’t let them control you.
You just don’t do that through your words but through your actions. People might forget what you tell them but the results of your actions speak louder than anything else. You can say anything – walk the walk don’t just talk the talk. Be consistent in your work, maintain focus and people will take notice those whose themselves inspire to similar goals will see the hard work that you put in and would be inspired by it. They will see your struggles, your motivations and how you overcame obstacles throughout your journey and will take them with them in their own journeys.
Alpha males don’t look like fools. They take care of themselves and the way the world perceives them. If you want the world to take you seriously you better take yourself seriously first. Get yourself a proper haircut and buy appropriate clothes. Have you notice, those who take care of the image always stands out of the crowd. That’s the power of understanding that people judge – the book by its cover, they do. Take a look at yourself in the mirror and see whether you have things to improve on.
Even your haters secretly want to trade places with you. This is because you are looking at a higher level then everybody else . Your life is better than those around you and you are aware of that. Your partner is hot, you are making new friends and visiting new places. Basically things are going well for you. While some people will be jealous of your life style others will be inspired by it.
Whatever it is you are doing, you are well known as the person who is making a killing at it. You understand the game, the rules and you are winning. Nobody is even close. While the Beta males try to compete with each other. The Alpha male is way way out of the league. Competition is for losers. Alpha choose to completely dominate.
In today’s world everything is a copy of another copy. Trends come and go the only way to stand out is to be who you are and be that person. Let the world adjust with who you are and not the other way around.
Authenticity is a premium this day if you manage to find yours – value it.
You don’t turn the other cheek Alpha maze don’t let others walk all over them.
If someone Barks at you, you bite. So they think twice before barking again. This means that you have to exercise your powers and play your positions. If you don’t people will come after what you have built for yourself.
The best weapon is the one you never have to fire. But if you do have to fire, then you only have to it only once. So that they never come after you again.
The gap between you and those around us getting bigger by the day, as you climb – you will realize that some people might have different ideas then you do. They are not willing to put in the same moment of work as you do and in turn the gap between your reality and their will just keep increasing. The view at the top is only reserved for the people willing to make the climb.
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